“Fabulously ambiguous consent”

Updated: 2022-05-31
Published: 2019-02-08
Filmed: 2017-08-10

This is a pretty intense bit of play where the intensity is almost all verbal. Jami kinks on complicated consent. I hadn’t been playing with her long when we shot this, so absent a bunch of practice and intimacy, I wanted to err far on the side of caution. I did still want to push those buttons though, since she asked nicely. I play with her butt some with my fingers, then get out the steel fuck rod, set it on the floor in front of her, and start talking about what is on and off the table while she’s tied up. My favorite moment is at about 4:50: “I’m going to hit you until you ask me to put that inside of you, and then I’m going to say no.” Watch the face and the scissoring thighs- she had so much conflicted happiness about all this.

Important note- this is actually pretty edgy. Sometimes you can *talk* about doing stuff you’re not actually going to do and it can be super hot for both of you. Or, sometimes that's a consent injury. Not a thing to do with someone where you’re not sure this dynamic will work for them.

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