Lovingly Handmade Pornography

General Information

I make BDSM porn that is hot and intense and fun and personal all at the same time; I think those things don't have to be mutually exclusive. I'm aiming for organic, fair-trade pornography that is reasonably priced, caring, and high quality.

Most of what I post is shot with regular play partners, scenes that we've done for our own fun first and foremost. I occasionally mix in bits from a site called Two Big Meanies that my partner Lauren and I ran years ago. New videos come out on no particular schedule because I'd rather consistently make content I love than run on an update treadmill.

• If you have any feedback, concerns, or problems with the site, please let me know at russell@lovinglyhandmadepornography.com.
• To unsubscribe, visit the support pages at Segpay. If your subscription has lapsed in the past six months or so, you should also be able to reactivate there without paying the higher first-month cost.
• If you've forgotten your password and signed up after 2025-10-31 using an email address, you should be able to reset your password here. If you've forgotten your password and signed up before then and/or didn't use an email address, email me (please include your login name!) and I can manually set it to whatever.
• The best way to find out about new posts to the site is via the RSS feed.
• There's some machine learning involved in my video noise reduction etc, but no generative AI here because the process of creating is about as close as I get to a spiritual practice.
• I only shoot with people I know in person and have chemistry with. Modeling applications are flattering but probably not useful unless you live in Seattle and/or I already know you.

How you can help

If you subscribe to the site or buy individual video clips, that money helps me keep doing this and I super appreciate it. Small independent porn sites are not a route to riches, and I would not be able to make the kind of content I do sharecropping for OtherPlaces.

• Step one for all of these is creating a site account The links below are disabled if you haven't done that or are not signed in.
• Regular subscriptions giving you access to everything are $28 for the first month then $9/mo after that until you cancel .
• If you want to buy a one-time year's subscription, you can do that for $99 .
• You can also buy access to individual videos that will last as long as the site is in business. Click on a video you're interested in, scroll down and look for a button that says 'add to cart'. Also, we had pro photographers for the old Two Big Meanies shoots, those stills are bundled with the videos.
• I will happily take Bitcoin for subscriptions or pay-per-download credits, with a 20% discount from the regular rates. It's manual at the moment, email me.
• Tell other people about this site, please! Also, I've got a Bluesky account that's partly for promotion and partly as an alternative for people without an RSS reader to find out about site updates, subscribers there are good.

Consent

Consent matters, and I try to slip as much implicit education into this site as I can. I show safewords being used, the complexities of various forms mid-scene communication takes, and alternate forms of affirmative consent. I also call out learning experiences where I can including my own mistakes, and encourage people to think about how they communicate around problems.

It's really important to me to provide a model for BDSM behavior that's close to how people in my circles actually do this, not the porn stereotypes. One downside of how I work is that I can't show all the planning and negotiation and back-and-forth creativity that goes into scenes since it's not on camera (incidentally I love Midori's phrasing: "Engaged and Collaborative Consent"). I also don't do staged exit interviews, because we're busy snuggling. Sometimes there's conversation about the scene, and where it's appropriate I try to include a bit of that snuggling and conversation. Speaking of which…

Vulnerability and Intimacy

My play partners are putting a lot more vulnerability on the line than you see in most porn. Some of this video is pretty personal and intimate, because that's how I like my sex and play. I try to make good editing choices, and I also try to appreciate their bravery by putting myself out there too. I show when I'm excited, when I feel tender, and when I'm imperfect. You're not getting the Perfect Porn Fantasy, but you are getting some intense play that's closer to reality than usual. Please be respectful of what we're choosing to share.

About Me

My name is Russell Harmon. I live in Seattle, was one of the founders of the Center for Sex-Positive Culture, and teach workshops for the Pan Eros Foundation and other places. I do technical stuff for House of Gord (and also sometimes guest top). I once in a blue moon write long-form blog entries on Make Better Porn, and more frequently post random stuff to my personal bsky or FetLife.

See Why I Make The Porn I Do for more.

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Testimonials from people that get what I'm trying to do here are awesome. Thank you…

"I just stumbled upon your website and I just wanted to shoot you a message and let you know that I love the porn you and your play partners are making! The creativity, and the joy, and the caring, and the cruelty and the silliness are all so awesome! Please keep it up! And thank you for expanding my understanding of what porn and kink can be!"

"i just wanted to say, I've seen many of your videos and the content is just incredible! between pain, pleasure, the easy conversation between you and the women, how you let them hug you, cuddle you; it all makes it so human. so personal. it is so beautifully erotic”

"It is all well shot and well edited, but more than that, it is the most fun porn I have ever watched. The banter and laughter interspersed with the sexual activities makes it joyfully hot to watch."

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